Is it wise to weigh the sexual aspects of a relationship as a deal breaker? All too often one sees a cycle of conflict, fighting, and abuse followed by sexual intercourse. This is a temporary penance soon to be repeated in the cycle of conflict. Individuals are the product of their families. In our busy society with parents struggling to meet economic demands, the children are given Iphones and video games. This leaves the children developing with a lack of fulfillment of affectionate needs. The children grow into adults not knowing how to behave in intimate relationships. This points to the need for the couple working on conflict management, communication, forgiveness, humility and mutual respect. These building blocks ensure longevity and increase the quality in a relationship!